Seems like “ghosting” has been a hot topic of late in recruiting circles, so it felt wise to cover it, albeit briefly. Most discussions of ghosting seem to focus on exclusively one side of the dance, i.e. the recruiter side or the candidate side. Let’s try to consider both here. First: quick definitions.
Basically disappearing without notice. It comes from dating slang, but can apply in almost any context. If a candidate “ghosts,” it means they were probably involved in the process to a point and then stopped responding — which is a much bigger deal if you’re closer to offer stage than, say, top of funnel. If an employer “ghosts,” it means they expressed interest and then stopped responding — and while I don’t have hard data on this, I’m going to go out on a limb and guess a lot of employer/recruiter “ghosting” comes after someone asked the candidate for salary, and the number was higher than anticipated.
Most logical reasons:
- They were entertaining multiple offers and got a better one.
- Something happened in their personal or professional life.
- They’re just not very professional or good communicators.
- The idea is normative to their generation (see “The Golden Age of Bailing”)
Out of those reasons, (1) is the most logical, (3) is probably what most employers claim, further widening the gap between generations understanding each other, (4) is very possible but if you casually scan Twitter for conversations about ghosting, you’ll see that Boomers ghost too, and (2) is hopefully not the case.
The most logical on this side:
- The salary number was too high.
- They found something troubling in a reference/background check context and would rather avoid the discussion than embrace it.
- The hiring manager went on a three-week vacation that no one knew about.
- They decided the position wasn’t “strategic,” i.e. the salary is going back into an executive’s bonus this year.
Out of those reasons, (1) is the most logical, (4) is probably the second-most logical — more on that in a second — and (2) and (3) are equally possible.
As for (4), in my 15-16 years of working and being a candidate for various positions, that’s the “ghosting” I’ve seen the most. Usually someone closes a position and then you see it reopen 18 months later — but if it was a $75K job or something, I bet $20K went to the bonuses of four execs each that year. Then some hiring manager complained about being busy long enough that they reopened it. Chances are the position wasn’t strategic either time it was posted, but we like to let ourselves believe certain lies about work.
Almost too many to list. A partial list:
- It makes it easier for us to generalize about different generations and assign them into silos of “they don’t get it!” or “they can’t communicate!”
- It’s another example of tech making it easier to bail out on important life commitments.
- It affects both the “candidate experience” and “employer brand” buzzwords equally.
- It makes it much harder for recruiters to hit their number, which frustrates/burns out recruiters.
- It further exacerbates the chasm between hiring managers and recruiters/third-party orgs.
Writ-large, we don’t. It’s an individual issue. The easiest answer would be “better parenting,” but let’s not go down that rabbit hole right now.
On the employer side: Automate parts of the process so that your people have more time to be communicating with candidates. Set up best practices around how to communicate with candidates, whether that involves templates for “those we’re not at all interested in” or whatever the case may be. Monitor communication from recruiters as a metric. Tie it to incentives. If your recruiters aren’t communicating, that negatively impacts your brand. Who wants that?
On the candidate side: Just be more professional and realize these people have jobs and bosses and targets to hit and numbers to make, and you self-opting out of the process at a later stage really can hurt them. Just write a quick email and explain what’s going on, send it, and be done with it. You might be blacklisted from that company for years, but it’s better than just “ghosting” them.
Both sides should talk about it with less force: There are no shortage of recruiters on social media just blasting the so-called “millennial mindset” — which is largely horseshit, as an aside — and screaming about “ghosting.” When you give the problem an angry, visceral face, more people get after it in the wrong way. Just acknowledge it’s an issue, sure, but take your professional steps to resolve your side of it. Can’t we all just get along and communicate?
Author: Ted Bauer